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As time passes, parents worry bout our so-called 'soul-mate' even more. Sometimes they just speak out 'ridiculous' ideas to get us 'moving'.

Well, that's not really the point I wanted to bring up here. Lol...

Anw, as I got involved with more activities with other people (which somehow involved too many boys with too little girls -__-), I'm exposed more to the dillemmas and problems related to those kind of activities...

Well, more specifically is - cash problem and transport problem...

Of course this is an on-going issue that each of us surely has commonly dealt with in the past. (Heck, I've always called people up and asked them - cassually and a bit 'non-characteristically' or what we know as 'dengan ga sopannya' Lol... - to pick me up... And of course bring me back home (we agree it's a set no? Lol...)

And in the western communities, it is a common occurence for all of us to just hop on to the bus and go together (yeah, of course.. it's usually our main transportation gt loh. Lol...) and just pay by ourselves...

But what about in asian communities? Is it so wrong for woman to drive alone? (well, yes it was past mid-nite... But...) So do we have to made those who live just the exact opposite direction from our house to pick us up and bring us back??? (The travelling time going to the destination place to home is the same for him and for us... Meaning doubling his travelling distance... Plus the destination's not just 15 min drive... It's moorrreeee... Esp in the crowd of the traffic jam in big cities like Jkt. Lol... Yesss.. Manthap!)

And what about the issue of "Of course the man has to pay for the girl! He's the man afterall..."

Sigh... What's wrong with paying by ourselves?

Sure I appreciate the gesture of man paying for woman, but not all the time, no?

So confusing...

So if there's no one to pick us up (paying is another matter... I believe we could just safely assume right now it's not as big an issue), can't we go?

Should we just be a good girl and stay at home???

So confusing!!! >_<